Dos semanas atras, estaba jugando y bebiendo algunas cervezas con mis amigos heteros, cuando decidimos jugar "quita-prendas"; sin entrar en detalles, algunos de nosotros acabamos desnudos al final...
Bueno, eso fue solo un juego entre amigos, nada malo; inofensivo.... o eso fue lo que pensé.
lo que llamó mi atención fue lo que hablamos despues de eso, con mis amigos ( solo hombres).
"Eso fue impresionante, nunca imaginé que estas chicas pudieran hacer eso" "fue extraño".
"bueno, nosotros hemos hecho lo mismo, ¿no?"
"Pero es diferente, nosotros somos hombres, si una mujer hace eso, quizas está buscando por algo más, o ella es una..."
Un segundo, yo he oido eso antes... , pero no con mujeres.
Algo de lo que escribi en "machismo en gays" vino a mi mente.
Existe aún la diferencia entre los "hombres" ( gays activos) y las "mujeres" (gays pasivos)?
Discúlpenme por el simbolismo, solo espreso la idea.
Si un gay activo quiere sexo, es aceptable; pero si un gay pasivo quiere sexo, es aun considerado algo malo, y él queda como "perra".
Y considerando que la mayoria de gays son versatiles, parece ser que todos han sido considerados como putas en algun momento.
Tal ves esa es la razon por la cual casi todo el mundo tiene mala reputación.
Aun entre heteros este prejuicio esta todavia alli. ¿Es posible que nosotros estemos transladando los prejuicios porque los aprendimos de nuestros padres, o en la escuela; y luego, incoscientemente, los pusimos en el mundo gay?
Solo digo...
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I am a gay who is surrended by straight people most of the time. Some people can't understand how this is possible, beacuse they think gays and straights are too much different to be friends... at least, closed friends. Speacially about sex and how we make our relatioships. But... are we really so different?
Two weeks ago, i was paying and drinking some beers with my straight friends, when we decided to play "streap-bottle beer"... to not enter to details, some of us were naked at the end...
Well, that was just a game betwen friends, nothing bad; inoffensive... or i thought that.
what called my attencion was what we talked after that, with my male friends.
"That was impressive, i have never imagined these girls could do that" " it was weird"
"well, we have done the same, haven't we?"
"But that's different, we're men, if a woman does that, maybe she is looking for something else or she is a ...."
Wait a second, i have heard that before... but not talking of women.
Something that i said in "machismo in gays" came back to my mind. Is there still a difference betwen "men" (top gays) and "women" (bottom gays)?
excuse me because of the symbolist; I am just expressing the idea.
If a top gay wants to have sex; it's acceptable, but if a bottom gay wants to have sex, this is still wrong and he is considered a "bitch". And considering most of the gays are versatiles , it looks like almost everyone has been considered a slut in some moment.
Maybe that's the reason because almost everyone has a bad reputation.
Even betwen straight people, this prejudge is still there. Is it even possible we are translating the prejudges because we learned them from our parents or at school, and we put them, unconsciously, inside the gay world?
I'm just saying...
